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Originally Posted by abaya
Right... though I'd say that it's still very present here, but more subtle because no one will outright SAY that a woman's POV is inferior, but they'll march right on by the female responses and thereby make them less valid as a result.
But then there's also the comment made by another male TFP'er here, which is that many of the male participants feel ignored/sidelined, too. So it's not just gender going on here. I do think that gender is certainly a part of it, but obviously not everything.
That's why I think just getting in there and posting, LOTS, on as many topics as you feel relevant, no matter what your gender is... will eventually start to make an impact and force the tone of the discussion to shift a bit. If we all just keep on doing the same things as before, then of course nothing will change. Do we want to maintain status quo?
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No, but I do want to maintain my sanity, or what's left of it.
I notice that once someone gets on a beatdown path, it's hard for them to stop-soon as they see a "nemesis" post in a political thread, you can bet your paycheck, their response will immediately follow. I have no desire to feed that animal.