I agree with what's been said. The emphasis should definitely be on health, not sexiness.
I'm curious to know--are your eating/fitness habits vastly different than hers? If not (AKA, if you're eating a lot of candy, etc), then perhaps you all should commit to a new, healthier lifestyle. "The buddy system" has always helped me in any sort of weight loss/healthy living attempt.
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