Lindy

For me sluttiness not about numbers, it’s about selectivity. When I first became sexually active –at fifteen- I was a slut. I didn’t care who, I’d do just about any guy, man or boy, that wanted to, and it didn’t take long for the word to get around.
A few years ago when I was journaling I came up with about thirty different partners during my sophomore and junior years in high school, (I probably missed some) and I was with many of those more than once. Mostly guys from school, but a few “older guys” (When you're sixteen, a twenty-five year old is an "older guy") too, including one who kept saying he knew he shouldn’t be doing it with me. Even now, fifteen years later, when I visit my hometown I can still count on seeing guys that I screwed “back when.” But what made me a slut was that I did it not because I wanted to, but just because THEY wanted to.

Also, it’s not about what kind of sex. When I look back at it, what I did in my slutty teen years was really pretty tame. Just hand jobs, sucking, ordinary fucking, titty fucking. One guy at a time, though sometime more than one the same night.
Later on, I got more selective and more adventurous at the same time. But I don’t see liking a variety of sex acts as slutty, just interesting and fun, although I’ve tried things that I don’t care to (and won’t) do again. If I do it 'cause I like to, or 'cause I like to "try anything once," that’s just good sex.
If I was willing to do any act with anybody, just ‘cause THEY wanted to, that would be being a slut. When I was in my mid twenties I spent a couple of years working as a stripper. It's ironic indeed that I had more slutty sex when I was a goodie two shoes high school student than while making gobs of money shaking my tits in public.
That’s the way I see it.

Lindy
Yes! The woman/girl is nearly always the one who gets to say yes, no, or maybe! So, from the manwhore point of view always yes=slut, always no=prude, always maybe=tease