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I understand your problems because you sound almost exactly like i did when i first started having sex. one thing that helped me was to have good music going and to not focus on the end result of what your doing but rather to focus more on the girl in front of you. often times this problem is due to over thinking and expecting something to much and you psych yourself out of the pleasure. as for the porn, its not really been a problem for me because i learned something that helps is instead of using the computer try to get in the habit of picturing your partner because its basically practice for the real deal. most importantly though is don't stress, you'll be alright, all it takes is once to get over that hill and then your rolling with no problems. as for the condoms its way better without it so asking your girlfriend to get on birth control may benefit because for uncircumcised guys its like having two layers instead of one.
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