Hyacinthe

See I don't know if I believe that, it would depend on the reasoning behind her actions - if she was doing it to prove something to herself, well I know alot of girls who do have somewhat dysfunctional views on sex and do that but I don't consider them 'slutty' because of it. Sure I wish they didn't see their self worth in terms of how many men find them sexually attractive but I don't think less of them for doing so.

Maybe it is the view towards the consequences of their actions or even whether they control their sexuality or their sexuality controlling them (certifiable nymphomaniacs are obviously excluded on this one) that would influence my views more.

I definitely don't think that it's a number thing - I can remember some guy on here (sorry I can't remember the post) saying that he didn't think he could ever have a meaningful relationship with a woman who had had more then three sexual partners because he would view her as a "slut". So is that the predetermined number between "slut" and "non-slut"? Or does some mystical even occur when a woman / man has slept with a certain amount of people? Far as I know it doesn't.

Then again I have never used the term "slut" in my life. I guess I just don't think of people that way, then again I made almost $100 an hour at my second job last night which is pretty close to being paid to "slut" around.

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