A lot depends on the partner. My ex was just too wide for me and it caused a lot of pain, especially in the first minute or so, then you get numb to it to an extent. I hadn't had that problem with other men, he was just exceptionally big. Position and women's individuality also have bearing - I love it doggy, or standing up, but for me, being on top causes me really nasty pain and soreness, so much so that I really avoid that position. Shame, because otherwise I'd like to be on top.
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