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ratbastid told me I needed to wander on by here-- he had actually just pinched the HELL out of one of my nipples at the time (wasn't quite ready for it, but hey). I can handle ... enough. I'm no Shani, but damn if I know anyone who is! I do love getting my nipples pinched, bitten, chewed on a bit; it's also a huge turn on for me to get my hair pulled -hard- and sometimes nibbled on the side of my jaw. I don't want to get beaten on, but grabbed at enough to leave hand marks is quite nice.
I think it just depends on what you love, what you're willing to risk, and what your body is built for. If I grabbed at lurkette the way I enjoy being handled, she'd kick me out of bed. Her body doesn't respond like mine, and that's fine. I can imagine it's a bit difficult for our boy sometimes....
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Screw tradition!
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