Mine is very sensitive. The isn't place on me that isn't ticklish; clitoral orgasm even tickles, then it hurts before climax. Most times, I'd rather forego it, otherwise I have to "suffer" through the preliminaries. And I really HATE being tickled-it's painful to me and the laughter is involuntary. It took me years to convince the spouse of this.
The upside of being sensitive to touch is that I really get off through nipple stimulation
I like fast and furious sex, but now that I'm "old", it can't start off that way anymore
The pain is excruciating.
I don't think you're all that unusual in this regard, LT. Some women like the torture because of various reasons, not the least of which it feels so good when it stops.