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It sounds like you are still living in that 'school-age peer pressure' life, and now I know- even though you've heard it before, I have got to say from hearing your past experience- GET OVER IT. It's not High School/College anymore. And your friends were just trying to help you, not criticize you (even though at school-age, they can be harsher) Yes, women pay attention to how guys dress- but it's not at the school-age mentality anymore. Who cares about your young crush or other peers anymore. This is the real world. You ARE wasting brain power, and also time and real opportunities with great people because of this fear you are clinging onto. If I were there right now, I'd give you a good wake-up slap and take you shopping. Seriously- try what I suggested, even if it comes down to the possibility of hypnosis if the studying and shopping doesn't work. And, honestly, gay guys tend to have a great fashion sense (sometimes a little too flamboyant themselves) but they know how to dress other people at their best.
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Well, isn't that just kick-you-in-the-crotch, spit-on-your-neck fantastic?!?
*Without energy, there would be nothing.*
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