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Old 10-15-2008, 06:04 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Cynosure View Post
She's angry about being in this situation despite her best efforts, and she resents having been all but forced to take out those payday loans.
Wouldn't it have been in her best efforts to look carefully at what she could afford, and to buy a used car well within her income range? One that could be paid off all in one go? I sold a very decent used car of mine last year for under $2000. I also bought a less-decent used car (in Iceland) last year for about the same amount, and it's still running fine with some maintenance here and there. Still WAY cheaper than making payments on a newer car! We're not defaulting on friggin' luxury car loans like the rest of the high-living (but now low-earning) Icelanders are, because we didn't care if we were driving around a beat-up 1997 Golf instead of a spiffy new 2008 Land Rover. To me, that's using one's best efforts, not getting over one's heads into loans that one cannot possibly pay off.
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