Originally Posted by merleniau

I've been in a relationship where I've literally had to TEACH the guy how to kiss - not tell him what I want or what I prefer, but teach him how to use his mouth and the various parts of it. It drove me batshit crazy after he reverted back to "muh" every.single.time. That relationship did NOT last long.

That is what I'm referring to. Not having to tell someone I prefer for them to keep their tongue away from my tonsils, but teaching them how to physically do it each time because they can't figure out how to do that.