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Originally Posted by merleniau
I guess I'm with little_tippler here. I don't want to be a teacher
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I don't think anyone here has talked about "wanting to be a teacher" in a relationship, other than Willravel. So I still don't see what we're supposed to be disagreeing about, frankly.
I mean, this right here is a type of "communication" about kissing that I'm talking about...
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Originally Posted by merleniau
I sometimes have to remind my man creature that his tongue IS allowed to be part of the kissing scene. He tends to get into lips-only mode sometimes and open mouth kissing really turns me on, so I remind him that I want "real" kisses every now and then.
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It's not "teaching," it's talking about what works and doesn't work for each person, just as ratbastid explained. Isn't that kind of basic communication, just like talking about what you do/don't like in bed is basic communication? One more time--as long as all parties involved are open and willing to talk about what they like/dislike about physical actions, then really, what is the problem? No two people are going to be magically compatible (with kissing, sex, or anything else for that matter) 100% of the time. We are all different creatures, and I don't know that any of us are mind-readers, as Shani said.