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As an addendum to ratbastid, I would feel very self-conscious if I had to correctly gauge how a woman wants to be touched from the start. I might be a good kisser to my current relationship, but that doesn't mean every girl will like it. Can I change? Hell yeah! I'm a man for every occasion.. I just have to know what I'm supposed to do first.
Maybe we can take something useful away from this. I seem to gather that its worse to be overzealous than it is to be mellow. In any case, if a guy were to start out tame and disciplined, his partner can clue him in to how he can increase his activity. If he starts out in 5th gear, it would be a presumptuous risk.
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