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Originally Posted by ratbastid
I think the red flag here, the REAL dealbreaker, would be if a new partner didn't treat it like this. If they have a "way they kiss" that's set in stone, and they're not awake enough to adapt and learn, THAT'S the problem, and the way they kiss is just a symptom.
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Yes. But if you're not really "commencing a relationship" but are instead just dating (playing the field, perhaps), there's less room for adaptation/teaching. Yes, if you have decided to commence a relationship with someone, by all means adapt, teach, learn all you want and can stand. But if you're in the "I'm not sure if I really want another date with this person" stage, and you have no previous friendly relationship to refer to for attraction, isn't it reasonable to be turned off by certain types of slobbery or probing kisses and not necessarily desire to continue and commence a relationship?