Those are great, lt. You missed the huge open mouth sucking your entire face in one "kiss". I've had them all at one time or another. When I was younger, I'd go along and try to lead and eventually tamed the long-term guys.
It must be that too many ladies don't open their mouths when they need to. We all need to teach our men (or ladies, as the case might rarely be
) how we like to be kissed, so when they're back on the market, they'll be ready for the rest of us.
My man had been married for over 30 years when we got together and he was a horrible kisser at first. Yuck. Since I don't have those inhibitions any more, I just stopped him and said something like, "How about we try this? Doesn't this feel good? Mmm yeah much better" and within a couple of days, he began was kissing me a lot more often. He's a fantastic kisser, I must say. One sweet kiss from him and I'm ready for anything.
And to think it was almost a dealbreaker.
And please don't get us wrong, guys. There's a time and place for that deep passionate French kissing. Hone in one those cues from your lady.
I don't mind a hickey if it just happens in the throes of passion, and is low enough so it's not visible with a collared shirt or turtleneck. But if it's done as a marker, fuggedaboutit!