I took paxil for a little while years ago and I was able to fuck like a stallion, but couldn't cum............and it didn't bother me at all. nothing really bothered me. it was strange, I just didn't give a fuck.
I dated this girl who was taking effexor, and she had the same problem your girl is having - she wanted to fuck, but couldn't get off...and it didn't bother her that she didn't. It bothered me and only because of that it bothered her, but bottom line it was the meds that were stopping orgasms in both cases.
fuckin' anti-depressants are weird!
you and your girl have to decide what is better - do the meds make her generally a happy person and able to deal with life OK? and if she's not taking them does she feel like a total head case? if so, then sorry but it's better to not have the O face then to feel so negative when she's not on the meds. stopping meds isn't an option, because if she does, chances are 6 months from now you won't be together.
and remember, it might get you down because you feel like you can't satisfy her, but she's still enjoying it, and you have to know it's not you that's stopping her..
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