I see a lot of stereotyping going on here. This thread strikes me as kind of stupid.
People are complicated. When we try to cram them into neat little boxes, we usually find they are poor fits.
I have been in relationships that I have enjoyed, and ones I haven't. The relationships I didn't enjoy didn't last very long. Was I settling? Or perhaps I was just taking a chance on someone, and that chance didn't work out?
The girl I'm with now is far from perfect. She can't cook, she's not very good at budgeting, she doesn't have a driver's licence. Am I settling now? Or perhaps I just think that her merits outweigh her flaws?
Just my usual random musings.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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