little_tippler

Shame you can't see the pics. Anyone else have that problem?

Well the clothes I'm wearing with the belt were just what I was wearing at the time, to show you the belt. It's not what I'd wear with it usually. But I don't like to see a belt over a shirt anyway, it bunches up and gives you a large middle.

It's never done me any harm to wear underwire and I think it gives my breasts extra support. I've never heard of getting lumps due to the underwire - chances are you may be wearing the wrong size bra, if it's digging into you like that.

I don't see how having the right fitting bra excludes having something that is pretty as well. Yes, you can have it all

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Whether we write or speak or do but look
We are ever unapparent. What we are
Cannot be transfused into word or book.
Our soul from us is infinitely far.
However much we give our thoughts the will
To be our soul and gesture it abroad,
Our hearts are incommunicable still.
In what we show ourselves we are ignored.
The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged
By any skill of thought or trick of seeming.
Unto our very selves we are abridged
When we would utter to our thought our being.
We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams,
And each to each other dreams of others' dreams.

Fernando Pessoa, 1918