Hm for me its kinda interesting.
I got friends who have told me that I'm a true friend. I guess that is cause friends tend to mean a whole lot to me, a lot more than my family (huge history thing that I rather not share in the open. Hopefully it will change if I get married). They are more of my family than my family is, and whether it is just messing around with them, gaming, or if they are in the shit and need to just vent, I'm most of the time there for them.
Of course, I do have my own share of problems, I'm not what everyone thinks of me. I'm not some genius with computers or such, I'm just an average college kid with some slight memory and awareness problems, with a moderate tech knowledge.
I tend to focus on other people's lives cause I don't usually find mine to be all that fascinating. I guess its what makes me a good listener, cause I always enjoy to know where people have been and what their life has been like. Because I'm so interested, I tend to not judge anyone, cause it isn't fair from my perspective to go on about how one's life has been, either good or bad, and then make a judgment about them. Its always been who they are now rather than who they were to me.
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