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Originally posted by Renny
...and one day she asked me if I ever masterbate, and I said yes occasionally. .... Well she was very pissed and upset at me and told me how she doesnt want to associate with people who do that, and that it's sad I do that, and disgusting, and she expects that from people in junior high, not people my age. (I'm 23, she's 20.) I explained to her that it is normal for guys to do this, especially if they are not having sex. (Remember we live far away and I dont see her often.) .....
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OK, first, yes, to each their own...no disrespect intended, the sexuality of your relationship is a personal decision, etc etc (seriously)
but...
wtf?
ok....is just, this strikes me as a bit odd.
of *course* you masturbate. duh. you ain't gettin anything else atm.
and furthermore...
i was in LDR with my bf until i moved to him (i was in MN, USA, he is (and now we are) in Germany, Europe)...
and we *both* knew very well that we *both* masturbated.
hell, masturbating with him whilst on the fone (and him doing the same) ..was our sex life, until i moved here. is great to be IRL now, to get real sex (and occasional masturbation, together, heh)...but our 'phone sex' was all we had, and it sure helped, i think.
bah, imo, your girlfriend sounds a wee bit too uptight, and she's not very nice, either.
yeah, cool that she apologises, maybe there's hope, but i dunno.
oh, and you *definitely* should call her on it when she's a bitch. don't just sit there, hurting. say something. (in a respectful way, so you're respectable...of course)
hmm, good luck
and keep masturbating!
heh, tell her to try it sometime, she mite like it and may put her in a better mood
