Oh man, What a predicament you've gotten yourself into. Here is my take. I'm 27 and in my lifetime I've dated two women with herpes. I'm still clean (lucky me), but, the relationships are tough. First things first, you are not doing her a favor, it might seem that way, but you are not. Second, herpes is very manageable, and if you believe she's worth the shot, then go for it. Third but not last, you have GOT to be comfortable and enjoy the relationship, that is the key man, if you don't enjoy her company and look past the fact that she has herpes then it will never work. Good luck dude and i really hope that you are a grown up and that you make the choice that is right FOR YOU. Don't listen to us, any of us, listen to the little guy that talks to you when you are all alone, you know him, the one that stares back at you from the mirror every morning, the same guy that whispers in your ear at night when you go to bed. Good luck brother. BTW, information, information, information; learn everything you can, if you like shoot me an e-mail and I'll tell you everything I've learned with my previous experiences, maybe it'll help. i'll pm you my e-mail.
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