I third all advice given so far.
I would like to know what you mean by "serious relationship." Are you talking possible marriage, monogamous but not marriage minded relationship, what? You can get intimate with a girl if you plan on her being a steady girlfriend but never ever want to marry her. Let her know up front you don't want to get married.
If you just want a fuck buddy, get to be friends with her, then, when you are friends, you can bring up the subject of fuck buddies and see her reaction, or you could start out with "hey, wanna be fuck buddies?" and save lots of time ever having to talk to her again.
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