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Are we really going to roll our eyes and be scandalized by "creepy guys" watching two girls make out in a bar?
Are we going to be shocked next when guys look at a girl's tits when she's wearing a low cut top or her butt when she wears really tight jeans? Do girls wear clothes like that or dance provocatively with each other or kiss each other for some other reason than to look attractive, i.e. attracting attention? Why would it be anything but perfectly natural for a guy to be attracted to a girl doing any of those things?
Do the "creepy" comments come from the fact that you get attention from people you're not interested in who come on too strong? I mean, if you do things like that, you're casting a wide net. You're probably going to get more that you don't like than that you do like.
Personally, I hate bars and parties where this sort of nonsense is likely to happen, but the few times I've been around it, I've watched with everyone else. Spectacle is just that. Don't really see what the harm is.
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