I noticed girls doing this for the first time when I started grad school and went to one of the few clubs in our college town... and it was the undergrads doing it, and they were definitely doing it for attention. It pissed me off at the time, but I wasn't in the club that often, so I didn't have to see it that much. Mostly, I learned from that experience how many men are out there who are like KellyC (no offense, but I'm being honest), and that is why those particular women do it well into their 20s.
If I were going to kiss a girl, I would most definitely not do it on a dance floor, because it would be for *me* to experience and not for men to get all hot and bothered over. Of course, I'm married now, so things would be a little different if we went down that road, lol.
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