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Hyacinthe · 09-30-2008, 02:51 AM

OK guys and gals

I am a stripper, I've worked as a stripper for 2 and 1/2 years now (well cloer to 3 really). So I like to think I have some insider information on this subject.

Most strippers will do extras, what those extras consist of depends entirely on the club and the stripper. I will do toy shows, anal shows, close dances, lap dances and breast groping - I have strict rules though. For example if I'm doing a lap dance I have my thong on and the guy will have his pants on (and done up) and be sitting on his hands, NO TOUCHING. If he wants to touch that a different extra. For each extra that the guy, or group, wants they have to pay a set amount, that money goes to me as in directly into my pocket rather then being paid at the desk so that's ontop of what he would pay at the desk for a private show.

I won't do hand jobs. I won't do blow jobs. I won't let the customers finger me. I won't have sex (with anyone other then my current SO anyways).

Some of the girls I work with will, they all do handjobs for example as we do massages with a happy ending - I choose not to and my boss accepts my decision.

So to me yes there is a great difference between being a stripper and a pro, I have friends who are prostitutes / escorts and can't believe I strip. They think strippers get the hard end of the bargain, heaps of guys see me naked (when I work the peep show) for a low cost where as few guys see them naked and boy will it cost them. Strippers meanwhile seem to think Pros get the hard end of the stick (no pun intended) since strippers have the ability to choose who they want to touch and / or be touched by, in some establishments (aka brothels) pros don't get that choice.

Going back to the original OP however yes extras are the normal course of events, I don't know a single dancer / stripper who does private shows or massages and doesn't do extras of some kind.

I'm pretty open about my work (my SO knows about it, heck he buys me shoes and outfits for work) so if any of you have any questions feel free to ask, I'll do my best to answer.

09-30-2008, 02:51 AM	#45 (permalink)
Hyacinthe Psycho Location: Australia	OK guys and gals I am a stripper, I've worked as a stripper for 2 and 1/2 years now (well cloer to 3 really). So I like to think I have some insider information on this subject. Most strippers will do extras, what those extras consist of depends entirely on the club and the stripper. I will do toy shows, anal shows, close dances, lap dances and breast groping - I have strict rules though. For example if I'm doing a lap dance I have my thong on and the guy will have his pants on (and done up) and be sitting on his hands, NO TOUCHING. If he wants to touch that a different extra. For each extra that the guy, or group, wants they have to pay a set amount, that money goes to me as in directly into my pocket rather then being paid at the desk so that's ontop of what he would pay at the desk for a private show. I won't do hand jobs. I won't do blow jobs. I won't let the customers finger me. I won't have sex (with anyone other then my current SO anyways). Some of the girls I work with will, they all do handjobs for example as we do massages with a happy ending - I choose not to and my boss accepts my decision. So to me yes there is a great difference between being a stripper and a pro, I have friends who are prostitutes / escorts and can't believe I strip. They think strippers get the hard end of the bargain, heaps of guys see me naked (when I work the peep show) for a low cost where as few guys see them naked and boy will it cost them. Strippers meanwhile seem to think Pros get the hard end of the stick (no pun intended) since strippers have the ability to choose who they want to touch and / or be touched by, in some establishments (aka brothels) pros don't get that choice. Going back to the original OP however yes extras are the normal course of events, I don't know a single dancer / stripper who does private shows or massages and doesn't do extras of some kind. I'm pretty open about my work (my SO knows about it, heck he buys me shoes and outfits for work) so if any of you have any questions feel free to ask, I'll do my best to answer. __________________ "I want to be remembered as the girl who always smiles even when her heart is broken... and the one that could brighten up your day even if she couldnt brighten her own" "Her emotions were clear waters. You could see the scarring and pockmarks at the bottom of the pool, but it was just a part of her landscape – the consequences of others’ actions in which she claimed no part."