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Originally Posted by Willravel
Fair enough. If you need a strong letter of recommendation, you've got one.
Maybe a better way to address the overall issues would be to establish or continue to build up a strong circle of healthy friends instead of looking for another relationship. I've gone for periods of intentional singleness, and I usually come out better for it. Perspective from within a relationship really is nearly impossible unless it's very healthy and you've been in it for a long while (and even then, it's not easy).
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I agree with Will here. Most of the people that I've met and enjoyed spending copious amounts of time with have been met through friends or at friend gatherings. Usually a friendship is an automatic voucher for someone. There is less pressure that way too.
I really like the Tea line, it's not so much a line but an invitation for someone to get to know you by volunteering something slightly intimate. Works well, sounds like you just need to be a bit more choosy as to whom you say it to
