As chauvinistic as it sounds... Don't take shit from her. I'd suggest, the next time she says something hurtful, call her on it immediately. If you let her say something thoughtless and hurtful like you're holding her back, it'll just set a precedent for her to be able to stomp on you as she pleases. You have a backbone, use it. And if she's worried about you jacking off, tell her at least you don't have some other girl doing it for you. Let her know how much it pisses you off, and if she can't be a little nicer, I'm sure you can find a girl that'll treat you civilly that lives much closer to you anyways.
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