I was once turned down by a guy who was older. I had a big crush, he was a wonderful, intelligent guy. One of those experiences where you never run out of things to chat about. We probably could have had a delightful future together. I would have been happy. But unfortunately my age creeped him out. We remained friends. He eventually married someone who was closer to his age, who turned around and divorced him, taking half of his assets. Hmmm. Sad.
Oh well.
If you can't get over the age difference, then it's too much of an age difference. If you're willing to get to know her and then decide if she's too young, at least you won't be kicking yourself in 5 years for not giving it a try.
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