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Why don't you use condoms while she is simultaneously on the pill?
Personally, I felt much the same way you did towards abortion (I am strongly pro-choice, but could not get through it myself)... my husband (boyfriend at the time) would have been fine aborting in the first year or so we were together, but he knew that I would not be. So we doubled up on protection, every time... and in fact, continued it for all of our first 2.5 years together, and additionally the first year of our marriage, because we felt that strongly about preventing any chance of pregnancy until we were absolutely ready for a "mistake," if it should happen.
So why don't you double up? It's very easy to do, and it will most likely put both of your minds totally at ease.
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