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thespian86 · 09-19-2008, 04:29 PM

You're about to encounter another flirt right now... handsome?

Yeah, we suck. It's sort of selfish on our part but I will be honest that for me, and most people I know like that, that it is a completely an act of sub-conscious. It's just a personality thing. I love flirting, it mostly is because I'm a joker and I have no real comfort zone so I can joke about anything. I hit on everyone, mostly girls (I'm straight) but I joke with other guys verbally. It's just a personality trait.

I've felt like you before though; in fact not so recently. I met another me. She's a student in my class, she was going through a rough time with her boyfriend, and my best friend and I helped her through it. She broke up with him, I liked her a lot, seemed like she liked me a lot too, but she ended up "hooking up" (I hate that term; I use it for the lack of a better one) with my pal after I had fallen asleep.

Now, I didn't take it personally, but because I'm in a new city I kind of freaked, felt left out, didn't want to lose two cool people too each other and then I thought. Am I an idiot?

Either way man, if your friends, does it matter? Ask yourself that. If it does, then leave it be; it's not worth it. But, if you can forget about her that way, put your ego aside, and be her pal, then sweet.

Oh, and she might be the bad type. The type that uses guys to make them feel better about themselves. If she is that kind, then say fuck it. It isn't worth being used.

09-19-2008, 04:29 PM	#3 (permalink)
thespian86 change is hard. Location: the green room.	You're about to encounter another flirt right now... handsome? Yeah, we suck. It's sort of selfish on our part but I will be honest that for me, and most people I know like that, that it is a completely an act of sub-conscious. It's just a personality thing. I love flirting, it mostly is because I'm a joker and I have no real comfort zone so I can joke about anything. I hit on everyone, mostly girls (I'm straight) but I joke with other guys verbally. It's just a personality trait. I've felt like you before though; in fact not so recently. I met another me. She's a student in my class, she was going through a rough time with her boyfriend, and my best friend and I helped her through it. She broke up with him, I liked her a lot, seemed like she liked me a lot too, but she ended up "hooking up" (I hate that term; I use it for the lack of a better one) with my pal after I had fallen asleep. Now, I didn't take it personally, but because I'm in a new city I kind of freaked, felt left out, didn't want to lose two cool people too each other and then I thought. Am I an idiot? Either way man, if your friends, does it matter? Ask yourself that. If it does, then leave it be; it's not worth it. But, if you can forget about her that way, put your ego aside, and be her pal, then sweet. Oh, and she might be the bad type. The type that uses guys to make them feel better about themselves. If she is that kind, then say fuck it. It isn't worth being used. __________________ EX: Whats new? ME: I officially love coffee more then you now. EX: uh... ME: So, not much.