This is not a conversation to be had with a mother. At least, not my mother. My mother could not even understand why my SO and I needed a larger blanket when I began sleeping at his house every weekend. She'd have a heart attack if I told her about a sex toy. I hid my birth control pills from her for years.
and from the other point of view, of being a mother, there is no need for my daughter to tell me she is getting one. It is a private matter, one that I do not need to be involved in. If I happen across one in her room (when she is older - she is only 11 now), I'd dust around it and go on my way. Then again, she better be cleaning her own room at that age. Unless your mother does not trust you, there should be no need for her to be going through your things.
Just get one and hide it.
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"Toughness is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles." ~Alex Karras
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