I love sex and love talking about it. It wasn't discussed at home when I was a child, or even when I became pregnant as a teen. I got hit with "Why didn't you talk to me?" from my unapproachable mother when she found out. It wasn't forbidden; our relationship never warranted any intimate discussions.
I've had a couple of female friends over the years with whom I was able to talk and joke about sex because most women I've met seem to feel such conversations are taboo. But most of my learning and favorite conversations about sex have been with men, whether they were lovers or friends.
That's another reason I love it here at TFP. I can be curious and nosy and learn and share my own experiences. Gotta love it.
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We are always more anxious to be distinguished for a talent which we do not possess, than to be praised for the fifteen which we do possess.
Mark Twain
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