I am truly committed to my SO. As is she to me.
We both look at porn. That is ok with both of us.
As has been mentioned elsewhere, cheating is measured in secrets kept. Porn CAN be cheating if you wouldn't tell your partner about it. It can also be cheating if THEY find it a form of infidelity and you choose to do it anyways (but in that case, you've got more serious communication problems). It can also be entirely, 100% fine. It depends on the relationship.
If my first relationship had gotten farther down the road, I'm confident that girl would NOT have been ok with me viewing porn. Thus, I probably wouldn't have.
My current girlfriend is ok with it, and I enjoy it. Thus, I do.
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