JadziaDax

Don't I wish...

We, as teachers, can't even put a child in a corner to separate them from the rest of the class. Corporal punishment is illegal in most of the US (except in maybe some backwoods school districts where everyone's relative). If I so much as give a student detention, I'd better have a damned good reason. And what happens if the student doesn't show up? Give them another detention.. and they don't show up again, so what? Nothing happens.

Administration barely ever backs up the teacher in cases of discipline.

For those of you who don't know, I work with the most difficult of students that exist. I'm a high school math teacher in an "alternative" high school. "Alternative to what?" you may be asking. Alternative to jail and/or boot camp, that's what. Most of my students have spent plenty of time behind bars in juvies. Some are there now. And some will be going very shortly. My students are some of the most violent children I've ever seen.

Am I afraid of them? No. There is no reason to be. Keep a few things in mind when dealing with them or their parents/guardians, and you'll be ok. First and foremost, don't back them into a corner. They'll come out swinging. These kids are used to being on the streets and having to fight for themselves. Second, show them as much love as you possibly can. It's something they're not used to, and they will always respond kindly. And third, don't be afraid to show "tough love". Be strong and fair. They'll call you on any unfair action.

There is no reason for armed guards in each classroom. If a student is unruly and your disciplining doesn't work, go to your Administrator (chain of command you must follow). If your Administrator (Principal, Vice Principal, Head Teacher) doesn't give you the assistance that you need, take it over their heads. See the child study team, see the school psychiatrist, see the guidance counselor, see the school social worker, and even call your local youth services office. Never let that child intimidate you.