Cynthetiq

The only time I was uncomfortable was when I was participating in the nudity ala sauna in Finland with someone that I had never met in person but only spoke to online.

We were on our honeymoon, Skogafoss doesn't like hot spaces, saunas, spas, hotpots, whirlpools. So she stayed upstairs surfing, while I got naked with a woman I hardly knew and her b/f that I didn't know at all.

It was a bit strange because I didn't understand the protocol, my normal getting naked with anyone else was only for sex. I didn't ever community shower, or if I did it was in/out fast as I could.

But the time I went to a BDSM club with a friend who was interested in trying it out since her husband wasn't. I had a good time watching people get whipped and slapped. Until someone was jerking off on my date's leg, it was all good for all of us. Once that happened tho, I had to tell her to leave, because I had to make sure my friend was okay. I consoled my date later on, but I was lucky she understood that my role was to watch and take care of my friend who was visiting.

It was the beginning of the end for them, as she found out she really liked that lifestyle and he never felt comfortable with it. They were divorced within one year.

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