abaya

I guess you mean a "sexy situation" involving people outside your central relationship? If so, I agree with Snowy here:I wouldn't mind going with ktsp while other people were having sex around us, if he felt okay with it. I think it might even be hot to have sex in the corner, with other people doing it in the room around us. The whole live porn effect could turn me on.

But if one or both of us did not feel 100% okay with it, and if we weren't both thoroughly confident in our relationship stability and mutual boundaries, we definitely wouldn't show up in the first place. That would just be asking for trouble. We have always had that agreement between us, and it's a very strong reason for why we haven't put ourselves into any "sexy situations" yet. We may never do so. We may end up doing it all the time, someday. But we are not ready for that, not by a long shot.

We already discussed the whole naked party phenomenon in another thread, no?

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