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I am contemplating this very issue in re genital warts. A potential partner of mine was up front and to the point, telling me that they were discovered long ago and that he hasnt had any appear for sometime, but that there is the potential that he carries the virus. It did not put me at ease. This is someone I could actually see living with at some time because there is something so right but I have to get over this first as well as a myriad of other funky junks. I am taking the route of "Lets wait and see what develops." It is frustrating for him, but he is making me comfortable which I see and appreciate.

However, at the same time he is making me very uncomfortable by suggesting counseling as a means of figuring it out. Jeez.

PS: A friend of mine was herpes positive when she married her husband, who wasnt. They stopped using condoms when they fell in love and knew they would marry. He remains herpes free many years later.

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