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Originally Posted by little_tippler
So how can I find in myself the will to focus and just say no? Does anyone else have this problem?
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Many people have this as a challenge.
One way to look at it: Saying yes to others often means saying no to yourself.
Sometimes you need to take care of yourself. How long will you keep saying no?
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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