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*Nikki* · 09-11-2008, 06:50 PM

I ask this because I am

My husband is extremely easy going. He is very agreeable to most everything I want to do and very flexible in almost every aspect of our relationship. It takes a lot for me to push him to the end of his fuse.

I, on the other hand, am usually pretty stubborn and unwilling to compromise without a lot of persuasion. I always seem to need to have the upper hand and I have always thought of myself as the one who "wears the pants" in my relationship. I don't see how I could be with someone who was anything like myself!

My husband agrees that I am "the boss" and he seems quite fine with this because his personality allows him to be that way. He doesn't mind having someone like me who is so take charge about things. I think it sort of gets him motivated in a way.

09-11-2008, 06:50 PM	#1 (permalink)
Nikki ~~~~~~~ Location: Charleston, SC	Are you the dominant figure in your relationship? I ask this because I am My husband is extremely easy going. He is very agreeable to most everything I want to do and very flexible in almost every aspect of our relationship. It takes a lot for me to push him to the end of his fuse. I, on the other hand, am usually pretty stubborn and unwilling to compromise without a lot of persuasion. I always seem to need to have the upper hand and I have always thought of myself as the one who "wears the pants" in my relationship. I don't see how I could be with someone who was anything like myself! My husband agrees that I am "the boss" and he seems quite fine with this because his personality allows him to be that way. He doesn't mind having someone like me who is so take charge about things. I think it sort of gets him motivated in a way.