Originally Posted by Seaver

Hey it could be worse... you could be me.

I've moved to Chicago 6 months ago and can't seem to meet anyone. Hell I can't even find a drinking buddy. At work I'm a manager, so am not inclined to get blitzed with those under me. The only person at my level is 55 years old, so he's not really feeling it either. I don't mind going to the bars by myself occasionally, but if I meet a cool group of guys am I supposed to ask for their numbers to hang out? That's kind of crossing a"not cool" line there.

As for women, can't meet them either. I work in foodservice, so all I ever deal with are male chefs or restaurant owners. If I go to the bars alone, I'd immediately turn into that creepy guy which makes the girl and her friends uncomfortable when I approach them.

Seriously.. shaddenfraude (sp?)