Yep, of course you're allowed to dislike her. Don't feel compelled to hate her, but there is absolutely no reason for you to ever speak to her again, even if she comes back apologizing up and down for being a flaky, manipulative slut. Besides, if you try to stay on good terms with her, it just shows that you're okay with being lied to and cheated on.
So drink a big glass of hate-o-rade if you want, but by no means should you try to have anything to do with her. She made it clear that she didn't want you, and trying to be the "better person" won't get you anywhere but walked on all over again. Besides, karma has a way of working itself out and nothing's quite as gratifying as telling your frantic ex who was just dumped for cheating on the guy she cheated on you with that you can't be there to console her because you're too busy entertaining a lady friend.
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