genuinegirly

My 2cents on your situation:
Encourage her to learn how to pleasure herself. People are only afraid of what they don't understand.

My experience:
I masturbate. I enjoy being self-sufficient sexually. I like the fact that I can give myself an orgasm. It is an incredible help when Tt is away on business, or when he's determined to make me orgasm and can't quite get it right himself (it's tricky, I admit).

I like it when Tt masturbates. It's a turn-on.

How I view masturbation:
A basic need, not a point of infidelity.
If my husband were to masturbate with another woman physically present in the room, then I'd probably consider it unfaithful.

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