You're kidding yourself about the "celebrating our time together".
Skip the champagne. And save yourself the grief.
You've summed it up nicely in your own post, so allow me to quote yourself:
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She said she needed to be selfish as her life revolved around this course.
I find this quite a poor view on life, but I guess am I being selfish by wanting so badly to stay with her?
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You both want different things, and you both want it for yourself.
This can only end badly if you keep at it.