you have a blessing most other men don't have. you're 200 miles away from the woman you want to break up with... lots of other men have to deal with seeing her again here and there and the possibility of mutual friends who will have to take sides. with that kind of separation, i'm sure you don't have quite that many problems.
i say do it as soon as you can and do it while separated... two reasons:
first, your ass is protected from a whompin or at the very least feeling bad from watching her cry. that sucks, but when a breakup has to happen, it just has to happen.
second, it keeps things impersonal and lets you both get on with your lives alot easier. its' so much simpler to hang up a phone than drive 200 miles full of regrets and anger and sorrow and all that other shite that happens at the end of a relationship.
this is something that needs to be done quickly, and i think it will be best for you both if you do it with 200 miles of phone line inbetween you. i garuntee, if you really aren't looking to continue this relationship, it'll make a whole lot more sense five years from now than driving all the way out there just to tell her that would've.
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