The problem with sisters-in-law is that they are often the most intimate female people that a guy has in his life, who aren't either their own sister or their dental hygenist.
So there is always the closeness, without being related and the "what-if" question. what if I met her instead of my wife. Would we have made a couple?
Well, you have to step back and assess why you met and hit it off with your wife in the first place. Often you will realize that you have the 'pick of the litter' so to speak. that flirtatiousness that you perceive may only be that. Comfort brought on because of the nature of your relationship with her sister. Don't read too much into it but that.
The last thing that I would do is to complicate and poison what could be a comfortable familial dynamic because of your fantasies. be strong, take matters into your own hands, and treat your wife with the respect that she deserves. Remember why you liked her in the first place. I'm sure it wasn't in order to get into her sister's pants.
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