When people get married in a remote area they expect most people to decline teh invite. Mostly they are doing it out of courtesy and hoping to get a gift out of it.
I do think you are being a bit judgmental about her. You don't know her and since it's been so long I don't think you really know him that well anymore either. You probably know even less about their relationship. If I were you I wouldn't say anything about her, just let him know that you can't afford to attend.
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