I showered with guys in college and on teams. It was basically because the dorm or locker room only had group showers.
I didn't talk about sex stuff though. I considered it bad form to talk at all, like sidling up next to somebody at a urinal when there are clearly others available.
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I think the Apocalypse is happening all around us. We go on eating desserts and watching TV. I know I do. I wish we were more capable of sustained passion and sustained resistance. We should be screaming and what we do is gossip. -Lydia Millet
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