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Originally Posted by elsesomebody
The desirable outcome of this would be ... well I'm not actually sure, but I guess that when we talk, make eye contact, hug, etc, we both know what we feel for each other instead of just hoping/wondering.
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Ok, follow this scenario and play out the end result. Right now you have feelings for her, or think you do, and all you want is recognition and validation of those feelings by her.
Once you get that, do you REALLY think you are going to be ok stopping there?
Next you will "only" want inappropriate online conversations with her, or a quick sneaked kiss or touch.
Then what?
You have to realize that, in a case like this, you might be focused on ONLY the next step, but it is the beginning of an entire path. The further you allow yourself down the path, the harder it is to go back, switch routes, or change course.