7 mos? Dude I don't mean to sound harsh but this is not a healthy relationship in any way. Not for you and not for her. Myself I'd move on. I had over 25 yrs with my Ex. She had a few issues here and there but totally lost it when her father became ill and eventually passed. She had issues of childhood trauma, completely inflicted on her via him. I thought when he passed she'd find closure and things would improve. How wrong I was. I couldn't help her and I'm willing to bet you can't help your current SO.
If you really want to help follow Manic_Skafe's advice and do and intervention. But be prepared and willing to move on... and soon.
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