Talking her into getting help isn't likely to do much good. You can try if you want, but interventions are usually for those intervening, rather than the one being intervened.
We engage in all manner of self-destructive behaviour. The one constant through it all is that one cannot quit a bad habit until one wants to do it for oneself.
I don't mean to be a bring-down. This is my experience in the matter. I have rather more of it than I'd like. The sooner you remove this girl from your life, the better.
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I wake up in the morning more tired than before I slept
I get through cryin' and I'm sadder than before I wept
I get through thinkin' now, and the thoughts have left my head
I get through speakin' and I can't remember, not a word that I said
- Ben Harper, Show Me A Little Shame
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